We have been ENM on and off for a number of years and have had numerous solo, MFM, and MFMF/MFFM experiences together. We're not every-week people in this lifestyle, but historically have been like every 2-3 months we'll meet someone for extracurricular activities.

She's gone out on dates before with other guys over the years and generally has an ok to fun experience. Most of the times she doesn't care for the other guy after a handful of experiences but she's had one or two long term bulls that she enjoyed their company very much. Unfortunately they got partners and that stopped.

However, since we have been getting active again as covid has become less of an issue, she's had more anxiety with meeting others. She's met a few guys that have been way too pushy or creepy. She says it's like something changed since Covid and a lot of people have some lingering mental illness from Covid, or people are just acting much more "weird".

Whether on feeld or any other app, she's much more turned off by the prospect of meeting another guy. When looking online at potential people, there's always something off putting or wrong.

She's certainly way more introverted than I am, but she hasn't been this introverted through our entire relationship.

Has anyone felt the same? Has it been harder to find other partners since Covid?