Let me be upfront and say I don't think there are very many wrong answers but I find it very interesting how different people and couples prefer to play or interact. I am curious as to what others prefer or think when making friends or playing.

Where do you prefer to find or meet people? Is it online, from your personal life, lifestyle/swinger clubs, socially? My experience says it really depends what each of you are looking for and what level effort you want to put in. Online is accessible but that often has more bad than good with wasting time and filtering through profile and messages to find the few good ones.

Where do you prefer to play? Your place, their place, hotel or neutral location, public? I feel like hotel is often easiest but limits other activities, Houses are fun (more rooms and activities in and out of bedroom) but also require more trust and discretion.

Where do you like to play in terms of macro-location. Do you play hyper-local, nearby, or travel? This one seems very regional to me and some areas are more prone to traveling where as some cities it is very local. Is this just due to the number of people or do to privacy or something else?