Posted the other day about my wives sex life before me and how she always hid it from me.

Anyways, long story short, the guy was a total piece of shit but she was very into the sex. So much so that she continued sleeping with him for months after they broke up because she enjoyed it so much. She broke down crying a lot bc she honestly felt like she was relapsing bc she enjoyed it so much and knew her friends hated him and that he was horrible to her.

A lot of just verbal abuse outside the bedroom etc. they just had a very toxic relationship.

They were super kinky is about all she would say and that the sex was very good. I didn’t want to push her so I did not bring up my fetish or anything like that and just told her how happy I was she told me.

She apologized for not being like that with me but said that she just thought I was such a breathe of fresh air in that I cared for her and was nice and she just wanted to move on from her ex. So she subconsciously started reverted and stop being like she was with him sexually. She claims shes very fulfilled with our sex life even if it’s plain. She did say it’s hard for her to be more Adventurous with me just bc she sees me so different and just loves sensual sex with me and that it’s different.

Anyways thanks for pushing me to talk to her. I have no idea what will come of this or if I should share my fantasy, but I learned a lot more about her.