Sorry for the long post.

TLDR: HW is being talked about more often.

The topic has been coming up more frequently. It's been becoming easier to talk about. It came up again last night, we were arguing a bit about something....not fighting but more like disagreeing about men and women roles in relationships. She said something like "and my husband wants me to cheat on him"

I came back to that comment at the end of the conversation and she said "I know you don't want me to cheat but I don't think I can be shared" her remarks were, and I'm paraphrasing.......I don't have room in my heart for anyone else and she couldn't do something like that with me there.

I came back and said it's not about making room in her heart but more physical. Still she said it's not something she could do. She slipped in a comment like, I get it, having a threesome or an orgy is a hot fantasy but it's just a fantasy. I couldn't watch u with someone else. I came back and said I don't want to be with anyone else, but I'd like to watch her. She said it's just not for her.

I asked her if it didn't turn her on when I told her my fantasy.......she shook her head no, in that same way when you're eating something and you ask your SO if they want some and they look at what you're eating for a couple of seconds and then shake their head no......then when you're on your last couple bites they say yea I'll take a little bit......that thing, that's what she did. I've known her for 20 years and I know she was holding back on that answer.

We talked about it this past weekend and the other day when we were having sex she put my finger in her mouth and sucked it. I said something like that's how you'd suck dick, she said yea and sucked it more then came. I normally put my finger in her mouth but she initiated it.

The other thing that got me was when she said, I can't do something like that....... with you there.......sooooo does that mean if I'm not there it might be ok? I didn't want to but pressure on her about it so I didn't press on some of the things she said. I thanked her for being as open as she has been and that I appreciate the fact that we can talk about it. I feel like I'm making progress, we're going to a major city nearby, staying in a fancy hotel so let's see how the session goes.

UPDATE: after all this, during our trip this weekend shes been dressing very revealing...... very short skirt, tops showing her tits etc......I've been completing the hell out of her.