So as I mentioned in my last post, I went to bed that crazy night with a big grin on my face and looking forward to what our next encounter with them would bring and I thought my wife was on the same page. However, I woke up at around 6AM because she kept tossing and turning in bed. She hadn’t slept a wink because anxiety and guilt had set in with her… anxiety about “what if someone we know saw us at the bar” and guilt about how far things got in the hotel room. She admitted that she kind of got shocked by seeing her sucking my cock and how quickly things escalated, including having sex with our respective partners. She was clearly overwhelmed with everything that was going on and it was too much at once for her, but she didn’t want to stop things because she didn’t want to be the “party pooper.”

We had a long discussion about things the entire day and there were things that happened (things she said and did) that she didn’t even recall because of how overwhelmed she was and I’m sure alcohol was a factor as well. She was clearly spooked at moving so quickly and admitted that she still had some fun, but she didn’t like how far things got. She said maybe if we had taken baby steps and just had some make-out sessions and even heavy touching, she would have enjoyed it more and may have been willing to do more the next time we met up with them.

I think with all of the dirty talk that took place at the bar, even though we set some boundaries before we went to the room, most of that was thrown out the window during the heat of the moment. Three of us were willing to take it this far without regard for what we set as rules, so we just assumed everyone was on board and went with it. Although I had a fucking blast, I kind of wished we would have taken things slower now.

My wife went as far as to say that she didn’t want to meet up with them or with anyone else anymore. She was so nervous and her mind was racing. I really didn’t like seeing her like this so I reassured her that I had to problem in cutting things off with them. I drafted a lengthy text to them explaining the situation and thanking them for an incredible night. They responded immediately and didn’t seem too surprised. His wife admitted that she took things too far without thinking because she was so “into it” and said she had the time of her life! They told us they were sorry and that they have no interest in pursuing any other couples and would like to continue with us and they are willing to take things much slower if we ever wanted to try again.

My wife seemed a little more at ease after that and last night we had some amazing sex recounting the events of that night. There was so much she had missed from not being able to be in the moment and enjoy it. I told her the details of those things and she was so turned on. Not sure where we go from here. 🤷🏻‍♂️