She/we had her/our first experience week and a half ago. Is it weird to refer to it as "she and we" & "her & ours"? I felt that was the best way to describe the experience. She met him at a bar for an hour, brought him home and we all talked / hung out for 30-45 minutes and then they went at it with each other while I watched.

I've been permanently turned on since - her too. We've never had so much sex in this time frame in the 10 years we've been married or before for that matter. It's been amazing.

She's interested in bondage and has been talking to a guy for 2 weeks about it. They setup a date for Monday. We're both really excited. I'm staying at home (like the 1st experience) while they meetup and playing house husband. It's a lot more motivating to get everything done around the house and spend time with and put the kids to sleep when you have something to look forward to later in the night.

If they hit it off, she's going to bring him home for me to meet him. They're not going to do any bondage stuff. I know nothing about it and it's not something that interests me, but I'm excited to learn about it. I will most likely watch (or at minimum they'll record it for me) if/when she decides to do it. This will be more of a meet and greet and hangout. Sex is on the docket if the mood strikes for them.

Lets see how productive I/we can be over the next several days before Monday arrives!