Sorry this is so long!

We'd been talking about full swapping for 5 years. It started watching Swing on Play Boy and the conversation and fantasy evolved from there. We revisited it every 3 - 6 months. Nothing was ever planned or discussed on when we should try it. It was more for fantasy at least for now. We'd drink, talk, watch a show / porn, fantasize and then have amazing sex. At some point she mentioned she wasn't ready to watch me have sex with someone else. I wasn't concerned about that. I told her lets start with her having sex with another guy and I watch. This was a fantasy of mine. She liked that idea a lot. That was 18 - 24 months ago maybe?

The conversation really heated up a month ago. She created a Tinder account (lol we didn't know where to start!) with some pictures we had taken of her that night, but it was rejected because pictures didn't pass inspection lol. The next week I was in Vegas for March Madness. I drunk text her how hot those pictures were and to try and create another account. She said I'll find something else. 10 minutes later she created a Feeld account and sent me an invite. It was on!

I came back from that trip for 2 days before going on a business trip. I told her to talk to whoever she wanted while I was gone for 5 days and we'd link back up when I got home and talk about what's next. I got home Friday night and she showed me some of the guys she was talking to. She had a very busy week! She was so excited. She was different. Happier, prettier, hornier. The next day I said, "Let's do it!" She was IN.

She set up a date to meet the guy at the bar for a couple drinks and talk. If she wanted to proceed, she'd come back home with him. He knew it was our first time. We were real excited. She got all dressed up. Looked amazing. I got the room ready and waited sipping on some wine when she left. And... she got stood up.

No turning back now. We were ready. She'd had connections with other guys too. She contacted another one and he was on his way within 15 minutes.

They hung out and talked for hour or so and then came back to the house. He was very polite and had amazing communication. He was genuine. He wanted this experience to be for us and wanted to make sure that it went exactly as we had hoped. After we talked four 45 minutes or so, I told him I was ready and told her not to worry about me and to have a great time and that I was excited to watch.

I didn't want to participate or even check in regularly with each other unless it happened naturally. I just wanted her to enjoy and I knew I would enjoy watching. He told me to tell him to stop if anything was wrong. That never happened.

It was incredible to watch. She was amazing. She sucked him off and then got on top of him and fucked him. He turned her over and fucked her missionary and doggy. She sucked him off and then he came on her chest. She looked so happy throughout and after. She asked how I was - I felt amazing. It was like watching a porn but my wife was the star. It was incredible. We thanked him and he left and then we fucked and I came all over her face and chest. The entire thing was simply amazing.

The days after have been great too. She's out of town now visiting friends and I can't wait for her to come back so we can do it again. We've had unbelievable communication, connection and passion for each other since Saturday night. I know it's early - real earlier, but this is the best thing that's happened to better our marriage in the last 10 years.

Lot more connection, encounters and experiences to look forward to. With the communication we've had, there's a lot of excitement to look forward to!