Hi! So my wife and I have been discussing the hotwife side of our relationship more and more lately. I realized years back that this lifestyle is a huge turn on for me, and while hesitant at first, she has warmed up more and more to the idea. Even as much as on her last business trip she took out of town, I gave her the "free pass" to do whatever she wanted with anyone as long as she records it for me or takes pictures. Granted, it didn't happen, she couldn't get the guy she liked alone long enough and she's also a little shy sometimes and wasn't sure how to approach it. We have talked about our feelings about this whole lifestyle on multiple occasions, with her biggest fear is me resenting her or hating her for going through with it and enjoying herself. I have reassured her every time and told her that this is something that I want her to be able to experience at least once so that we can see if it really is for us or not. I will take the first steps whenever she is ready and we will see how it goes!

So my question(s) is this for all you hotwives/stags out there new and experienced alike:

After you first time, were there any feelings, emotions or complications that popped up unexpectedly? Did you feel any certain way that was different than you thought you would feel? Did anything go horrendously wrong?

I know I'm in control of my emotions and I am VERY confident in my ability to satisfy my wife, but was there ever a time where some negative, unexpected feeling just showed up during or after and you were like "Whoa....where did that come from??"

Just a thought today on my lunch break that I could use some input on :) Thanks guys and girls!