Early on in my relationship before marriage (each of our seconds), I revealed to my now wife that I was interested in the lifestyle. At first, she walked. She thought I wanted to get play, too, with another woman, or was looking to be able to get with guys again(I'm bisexual).

I reassured her that wasn't the case for either, I just wanted her to be free to have pleasure. She reached out to someone who she matched with on Tinder while she was single that was a couple. He was interested and claimed his long-term gf was...until she hooked up solo and the wife unfriended her.

I think this set us back. She was scared that something would go wrong. But we persisted. Posted on Doublelist, started chatting with a guy that travels around our area. First meetup didn't pan out. But she was willing to travel the one afternoon to meet him an hour away. They had drinks, he suggested a hotel, she agrees, they had an amazing time...and then he ghosted her. Another set back, this time, I think it hurt her emotionally, like something was wrong with her. In the meantime, she's developed chat relationships with multiple guys from all over the US (and one in New Zealand!) that she trades nudes with and has fantastic chats.

Started chatting with a guy near us. Unfortunately, he shares a name with another guy who just started chatting with her(and was obviously socially awkward) but she reached out to the wrong guy. We ended up having a really awkward threesome that's best forgotten.

Other contacts fall through until we go on vacation to a semi-local travel destination. Our second night there, I ask if she thought about hooking up. She said she wondered the same thing. So, placed a Doublelist ad and within ten minutes, had a response and within fifteen, he was chatting with her, getting directions.

A great threesome ensued. We talked for a bit, she noticed his hardon through his jeans and started rubbing on him. Within a minute, we were all undressing in the bedroom, me on one side of the bed, them on the other. She proceeded to give him a beautiful blowjob, then moved to the edge of the bed, where he fucked her while I held her hand. He asked if I wanted to switch and while I fucked her, he face-fucked her while kneeling over her face. After a while, she had him roll over to suck him off to completion while I filmed.

Now, she's started talking to a recently single former co-worker of hers. Within the day, she went over to his place, where they fucked in the backseat of our car, without me knowing until it was all finished. He's only the second guy to make her cum vaginally, after myself.

She's been trying to reconnect with him since that day a week ago but schedules haven't worked out but here is the kicker: he invited her out to his farmhouse in the country tonight to spend the night. If she hadn't already been in bed and have to go to work so early, she would have been over there in a heartbeat!

Thought I would share our experiences so far and wanted to hear everyone's thoughts