With the increase of posts that fall under the umbrella of 'looking for partners' I'd love to have the communities feedback on how you would like these moderated.

My personal stance is that they should be removed. I feel they do little to add to the conversation about the lifestyle. They tend to take over subreddits and the quality inevitable declines; overall I feel most questions could be answered with a very quick and simple google search.

On the other hand I know that many new couples are excited and want guidance on where to find partners and getting answers from experienced couples can be helpful. In any case things like location and personal info aren't allowed so the posts tend to be very broad and vague and don't add to the overall discussions on the hotwife lifestyle.

I'd like this subreddit to be a resource for anyone to learn more about navigating the hotwife lifestyle and while finding partners is a part of that, it's always the same answers, dating sites, reddit, dating apps, social circle or head the the bar/club.

If you the community overall would like to keep the posts, that's fine and if you'd like them removed/cleaned up that's fine too. I'd just like to know the overall vibe so please participate.

Thanks so much!

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Thanks again for the input! Majority rules so I'll continue to remove the 'looking for' style posts. Appreciate your participation!

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