My wife just got home from a business trip where she played with another guy I arranged for her. We have some very basic rules which we both agreed on. 1. She video tapes everything ( the initmate moments of course) that goes on. So if they wake up at 2am and want another round mood killer or not she needs to video tape it. 2. I get to listen via phone, it was video chat but she is more conservative if I am watching so I said at least let me listen so I know what's going on. 3. When she gets home I get my way with her until I am satisfied with the reclaiming. Here's the issue, the phone was placed right by the music they were playing so it interferred with the connection and all I was able to hear was the occasional screams when he was hitting the right spot. She said sorry but that 1 rule broken. So she gets home and I am watching the video she made which us very hot but she had lovingly sent me a clip of them doing some stuff she had recorded on her phone. Problem is I didn't see that anywhere on the video which means they video taped a short clip for me and then continued on a round 2 but didn't video tape it. Rule 2 broken. Then last night when I reclaimed her she gets off me, cleans up and lays down and falls asleep without saying a word. I had to wake her by saying goodnight in a sarcastic tone like hello. I realize she was tired from the business trip so I was trying so hard not to say anything but it's eating me up. This morning she showered and left telling me I had the video that was enough. Am I being selfish by being really put off and upset by her actions? I haven't brought up the missing video of round 2 since she got mad and said I am never satisfied. But the whole lifestyle is built around trust and the 3 rules I have I don't feel are really that much. From what I can see she loved every minute of the experience with him.