I chronicled our successful playtime earlier in the summer, and the promise of a regular meeting quickly vanished. Communication is sketchy, he'll text and say they need to get together and then it will be utter silence for a few days or weeks. Lots of interest in far away places, but nothing that will fit what we/she wants/desires. We met somone close, within 10 minutes, and it looked like she was going to get the local guy she wanted that was close enough to travel to on a whim. Labor day weekend she had a happy hour at the end of her shift and got the courage to make a stop on the way home for some fun. It turns out he was not who or where he portrayed online. His place was overgrown, the house was a mess, and he was much bigger than his pictures showed. She figured he was still cute, she was there and horny and body size or not it was hard to fake a cock that size. He led her back to the cleanest room in the house which happened to be his bedroom. She got undressed and he dropped his pants. He fingered her for a bit and then before she knew it he was inside her. She said he lasted a minute or so, but she said he wasn't in long enough to feel anything before he pulled out and shot her stomach. He apologized and told her it had been a while and she got dressed and headed home. You know it's a bad day when your wife bursts into the bedroom and lays down on the floor laughing hysterically. Of course I was happy to give her the elusive orgasm she requested that day. So she had been talking ro someone who was about 15 minutes, out but still in our desired range. We had some downtime on Sunday, child free, and invited him out. He showed up on time, shook my hand and and sat down on the couch. He instantly started rubbing her leg with his foot and asked if they should go upstairs. Straight to the point. Just the way it should happen. They headed upstairs and I gave them some time to get started and headed up. The door was closed and I could hear her doing what sounded like a fine job lubing his cock with her mouth. I opened the door quietly and slightly, thdn got out of the line of vision. They played for the next 2-3 hours, her and the little guy with the big tool. He spent the whole time either trying to get hard or not staying hard. I shut the door again and headed to our room to listen. He finally gave up and got dressed and left. He texted later saying he drank too much the night before, but she thinks he was nervous with me there. He backed out the next Sunday and communication had been pretty spotty since then. So there you have it. One amaizing experience followed by 2 disappointing experiences and our search continues. Lots of interest through here, Doublelist (although somone got pissy because we are direct) and SLS, but also lots of communication failures and distance restraints. Maybe after our evenings free up in the next month she will be able to actually spend some time talking with people and going out on a couple dates. We've got a trip coming up headed south, and we may scope out a hotel bar and see what the vibe is like there. Doubtful she will play far from home this early in her journey, but you never know. We also got invited to a swinger's party in a couple weeks and she is super excited about that. She's definitely all in, and wants to find her regular fling along with starting to check things off our hotwife challenge list. Disappointed, but not deterred. There's someone out there that fits the bill.