First and foremost a huge thank you is in order to all of those who submit and browse this little subreddit. We’re small and I’m biased but it’s my favorite little corner of reddit and that’s due to all of those couples and folks who take the time to submit advice and share their perspectives, fears and questions with the rest of us on r/hotwifelifestyle.

This subreddit was started in 2014, by me under the slut-like-you username, and I’m beyond proud that it has maintained the vibe of being the kind of place I was looking for when I started out on this hotwife journey. We recently hit 100K subscribers and while that’s relatively small in reddit terms, it’s a lovely reminder that this lifestyle is always growing. If you’ve been here from day 1 or this is the first post you’ve read I want to welcome you here and say thank you. Thank you for making this such a positive and welcoming place, thank you for the advice you provide to each other and thank you for taking the time to contribute in the many meaningful ways that you do.

In an effort to help facilitate the kind of exchange of information that I desperately wanted when I started, I’ve been working on a few new projects for the subreddit. In the past I made it a priority to share as many guides and as much practical advice here as possible. I plan on going back to that as I’ve noticed an influx of new couples who are navigating those first few experiences. I also plan on posting some polls and surveys and I would be so grateful if you’d all participate in those. As someone who loves data I think it can be a really helpful way to gain insight into how people engage in this lifestyle. Lastly I’m currently working on setting up a Discord server for r/hotwifelifestyle. That Discord server will include a place to look for like minded people in your area since that’s not something this subreddit offers, as well as a host of other features.

I’m often asked what the greatest thing is about being a hotwife or what part do I enjoy the most and while I’m sure the answer people want is cock….the real answer is community. I know, so lame. Truly though, the greatest aspects of this lifestyle have all been through the connections made and I hope this subreddit and Discord can serve as a place to continue to make those connections and grow the hotwife lifestyle into the thriving and beautiful community that it can be. I look forward to these exciting additions and more to come. If you have any feedback or ideas, please reach out to me and let’s chat! If you’re interested (and experienced) with Discord moderation please reach out even faster.

Again, thank you for being a part of this subreddit. I appreciate that so many of you share your trials and tribulations as well as your progress and victories and I hope you’ll continue to do so. It’s my hope that whatever stage you find yourself in you’ll be able to find the advice and camaraderie that you seek, right here. Be safe out there and happy hotwifing!