I can, have and will write about my woes and complaints of being a hotwife but I'd like a little break from that to focus on the positive. I write a lot about my own experiences and in doing so I've learned a lot about how everyone else approaches this hotwife fantasy. The common factor is that everyone does things differently. For this post though I want to focus on the things that are considered extra. Some of these dudes out here are slaying it for us wives by going the extra mile. These two examples come to mind: first, this dude from my snapchat; I thought it was pretty sweet that he brought her macaroons for their date and fucked her brains out. The other is this post, homie sent a fruit arrangement with a cheeky note. I just thought those were kinda funny and so thoughtful. So now that it's on my mind I'm here to ask you...

Couples/wives: what has your third done that you think is Extra? What kinds of things would you like/consider 'extra'? Where and how does that all balance into your hotwife dynamic with your spouse?

Dudes: What do you consider going the extra mile? What have you done/planned/initiated for your couple/hotwife? How do you feel about making the effort to 'stand out'?

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Overall I'm just curious of everyone thoughts on the topic of doing/being a little extra when it comes to the hotwife lifestyle.