Mostly asking out of curiosity but also because I get asked this quite a bit so I think it'll be helpful for other couples to hear a variety of answers. What was the turning point for you, as a couple, to fulfill this fantasy?

Personally we pretty much jumped in (which I don't' recommend). We went from talking it over for a few days to making a profile on a dating site and chatting with a few guys. In all honesty we moved quickly because I fully believed that once I put up a profile/tried to find guys my husband would quickly realize that nobody was trying to fuck me. I was willing to humor him thinking he would forget about it when there weren't any potential candidates. I was wrong and that's when it became 'real' and I had to carefully consider if I would go through with it. After chatting with a few guys and setting up tentative plans we just kept going with the flow and enjoyed the ride. So ultimately we kinda stumble/jumped in without too much thought and zero baby steps. That's our point of entry...what was yours?

I know the 'norm' is to take baby steps or talk about the fantasy for months before doing anything. I'm curious if there was a defining moment or deciding factor that made you go from keeping it a fantasy to getting out there and having your first hotwife experience. I'm hoping both husbands and wives are willing to share with me here since it's probably very different answers from each half of the couple.