With the influx of new couples discovering the hotwife fantasy, and making it happen through Reddit, I thought I’d throw this out there because it’s shady as fuck and as much as this can be a great little community some folks spoil the lot.

In the fog of excitement that comes with exploring a new kink a lot of couples have rose colored glasses on and assume the best from all the pm’s, comments and messages they receive. So on several occasions we’ve gotten messages from couples who want to verify that I’ve met with ‘so and so’ and that he’s a legit guy. Problem is I never met with ‘so and so’ and because I post here frequently guys think they can tell other couples that they’ve met me and that gives them some kind of hotwife street cred. Why in the world someone would think it’s ok to lie like that is beyond me but apparently it’s happening ( a little too frequently for my liking). If you’re a couple and someone tells you that they’ve met with a hotwife from here please contact that couple/wife and verify! I’ve met 4 redditors thus far (hopefully many more to cum) and I’m happy to verify them, talk them up, connect them with other couples, etc. Three of the four have asked before mentioning my name (or username) and asked if it was ok for the couple to get in touch before they even messaged other couples. I’m always happy to oblige and I’m sure that many of the couples and women here are of the same mindset so if you’re a couple or hotwife and considering meeting up with someone who is ‘experienced with the couples here’...verify with that couple ( I can’t say it enough). I assume someone who’s willing to lie about that is a shitty person and not someone you want to include in your fun.

I’ve also had the displeasure of meeting many guys through here that talk a big game and bail at the last minute...but then go on and chat up the next hotwife and do the same (not cool btw) so there’s no harm in asking other wives/couples if they have any experience with the person you’re chatting with. I’m not advocating anyone sharing photos or sharing personal information about the folks they are in contact with but again I think it’s important to verify before you meet someone. On the hotwife subs we have the benefit of being a relatively small group, the couples here are supportive and want everyone to play safe and have fun so most of us are willing to help each other out. So I suppose this is a bit of a psa that you should always trust but verify for your own safety and peace of mind and feel free to reach out to the verified couples and wives here who actively meet redditors and know who’s real and who’s just collecting pics.

TL;DR: *Trust but verify *