I’m curious to hear from the husbands if the reality of this lives up to the fantasy that you had in mind? Many of you have been posting here since the very early stages of starting out this fantasy and I'd love to hear your thoughts and opinions. In general husbands are the one to initially broach this topic after having thought about it and fantasized for awhile...I'm sure that includes situations, experiences, feelings, etc...what I'd like to know is

Are you happy with the outcomes of the experiences you've had?

Do you feel that your marriage/relationship is better for having fulfilled this fantasy?

Are you still as turned on by the fantasy now that it’s played out in real life?

Do you have any regrets?

Is the reality far better and sexier than you could have imagined before starting?

How has the fantasy evolved over the time that you've been actively 'hotwifing'?

Is the reality 'tamer' than what you originally pictured engaging in or does it lean the other way with more boundary pushing than you expected at first? (Since that came out a bit wonky I mean something along the lines of...'i wanted the wife to have gangbangs every other friday...but in reality just sexting with other guys is where we draw the line...or I thought sexting would be hot but once we started I couldn't wait to schedule the first friday night gangbang.)

Obviously once you include a third person not everything will play out exactly like you pictured it but in a general sense...has the fantasy lived up to your expectations?