This might be an unpopular opinion on here, my wife and I have no rules for when she’s having fun. Whether a MFM or her on a solo date.

So let me get this right.. not only do we want, but we encourage our wives to have sex with someone else. So why do some couples have rules such as no kissing? You’re ok with her sucking his cock and swallowing his load, but must use a condom? Ok for solo date to be at the house and fuck on your couch, kitchen counter, table, etc, but not your bed? Must take pictures and video? Yes theres going to be some sort of emotional connection if it’s on going thing with someone, so why tell her to stop seeing him at the first sign of an actual friendship? The list goes on….

We started off fairly open, with just a handful of minor “rules” but we both decided early on to do away with them.

Yes it great and tons of fun to have a hotwife who enjoys sex, and yes it can fuck with your mind at times, but if you don’t have complete trust in her, you probably shouldn’t approach the subject. Ultimately I don’t want her to feel like she’s doing this for me, or putting on a performance for me. Yes we want to be safe about, but she sets her own boundaries and what she feels comfortable with. They might be different with different guys and that’s alright. I want her to feel comfortable enough to tell me the details knowing I’ll be fine with whatever she says.

Once again if you can’t accept the boundaries your wife puts in place for herself then you probably should keep this as just a fantasy.