I’ve been a single male in the lifestyle for almost 2 years with a few but mostly good experiences with hotwives. However, given that I live in probably the biggest and most well known city in the country, there seems to be a lack of real or consistent hotwives/couples in the big apple. Most of thr r4r subs for my city and state are filled with bots and spams with some real and serious people in the lifestyle. I find it difficult to find real people which seems odd considering the location. To me, i see the subs for down south cities and states to be way more active and present in the lifestyle. Anyone else feel the same? Some advice would be appreciated.