So this happened over the weekend and I’m not sure how to process it. Kinda venting but also trying to understand my emotions. So after the football game party at my house my buddy was drunk and stayed after everyone had left. I offered to give him a ride home and my wife who was drinking also offered to tag along. After a mile into the ride I notice he has his hands over the seat and grabbing my wife’s tits. She isn’t saying a word but looking at me like what the hell. I kinda froze and let it happen. After about 30 seconds he spoke up and said those are perfect. I finally spoke up and said they are the softest I felt and my wife instantly shot a look at me like are we okay with this? I just kind of laughed and she rolled her eyes. He then kept hounding her about seeing her perfect tits while playing with them as she said nothing. Finally she looked at me and said “should I just let him see them, it’s not like he hasn’t been playing with them for the last 10 minutes. I said yeah I think you should and sure enough she showed them off. First time in 10 years she showed them to anyone. Nothing else happened other than more handfuls but once we dropped him off my wife was like so you were okay with that? I was kinda unsure how to answer and said idk. She started asking questions like what would I have done if he invited me in? Would I let him? When we got home we had pretty hot sex and a little fantasy talk but nothing else was said about it. Today my wife asked if we are gonna give him another ride home and laughed. Is this happening in front of me or am I just over reacting?