Hey, my wife and I have been talking about/fantasizing about picking up a third at a bar. We have had in depth discussions about what would be ok, and what wouldn’t, per our comfort levels. She is 100% on board, and we will be trying out for the first time in 6 months. Here’s my hang up. In these scenarios she thinks that men won’t hit on her at the bar because of her ring, and is insisting that it be off to give me the scenario that I want.

I have a different opinion and want her to keep the ring on, I honestly don’t think it will be a deterrent for guys hitting on her and it’s more honest. I guess what I’m asking is how to drive this point home with her?