So far, I’ve had 4 experiences in the lifestyle and they have all been awesome. With every couple we had chemistry, alot of fun, nothing was forced and everybody enjoyed it. However with my last (4th) time with a new couple it was not fun or enjoyable. We lacked any chemistry from the get go and made it clear to them that perhaps it was best we didn’t go on because there wasn’t much in common. They insisted that everything was fine and I went against my gut feeling and went ahead with it. We met up on the upper west side and usually most people want a drink or smoke or something to break the ice and spark a natural fun conversation to see interest. They were not up for it and wanted me to go right up to the room.

We talked for a few minutes in their room and said they were ready to go. To be fair, nothing seemed off at the moment, eventhough the chemistry was not there. They were a little shy and nervous, which is TOTALLY OK but from there on i felt that this might not be alot of fun. Long story short, the sex was lackluster, the husband got frustrated and definitely affected the vibe. Not to blame everything on him but it took its toll. There was a lack of stimulation from the wife but i still kept trying to get it going. We went our separate ways 30 minutes after that and feel like it was a waste of time for all of us. They said they had mfm experience although it didnt quite feel like it. I have nothing against them at all and I wish them well in the future and with their experiences but that made me lose interest a little and I took a long time off from seeking couples/hotwives. Anyone have similar experiences like this? I am never meeting up with anyone that I dont feel any chemistry with ever again and I learned from my mistakes.