I recently posted about how I had asked my wife to be more open about what she wants sexually, and while that caused a short term miscommunication, it seems to have opened up the door to allowing herself to frequently enjoy masturbating with the large dildo we have without feeling like it is a threat to me. More here.

Since that point in time we have had sex daily, a large step up in the frequency of our lovemaking, often, but not always, with the 8 inch dildo.

Last night as we were having sex she lamented that we had not gone to a sex club in the very large (and anonymous) city that we had visited. We had previously fantasized about having sex at a swingers club but had not really taken any material steps to going to one other than looking at websites etc.

I suggested that we should organize to go to one when we have the chance to travel out of the city that we live in and have time away without the kids. In my mind I was thinking thousands of miles away, but she responded “yes, we should try next time we go to city XYZ.” For reference, city XYZ is only an hour or two drive away.

I was blown away, the fact that she was even thinking about doing that in this city stuck me that our conversations and recent increase in sex and hotwife role play was striking a chord with her, and that while we aren’t planning to go out and pick up a bull for her asap, in her mind this is far closer to a reality than it ever was in the past.

Exciting times!