It's been about a year now since we began the journey from vanilla, traditional, married with children towards a more open, exciting, fulfilling sexual life together. We talked and shared and fantasized and last fall had our first full couple swap. We have two more on the calendar, and still assessing our feelings/excitements/reservations. Our journey started with TS's longest fantasy: MFM threesomes. She wanted to head more toward a couple swap to be 'fair' ☺️ and that's been another of the mind shifts we've worked through! One of the hardest things for her is seeing me with another woman ---which I enjoy but would willingly give up--- and we keep coming back to her desire for a hotwife with husband present/possibly involved type thing. Closest 'community' to that we see is maybe the Stag/Vixen dynamic-although we really like that labels don't much matter, this marriage is what each couple wants it to be... Anyway, we'll continue swaps/swinging whatever you'd like to call it but she would like to explore the dynamics with another man also. Just sharing, really, although messages or constructive thoughts are appreciated. Happy new year!