First off, we (M44 F41) are new to the stag/vixen lifestyle but have been in this sub on the main account for awhile. Both husband and wife are on here. We finally jumped in and shared some pics on our local hotwives sub. (That’s me in the avatar). The responses were insane. Close to 200 messages in a day. Had to delete the posts to breathe. Most were boring. Some were good. Some were cringe. We naively tried to respond to all with a “thanks” or “no thanks” but that was dumb.

My question to the LS community is does anyone have a copy pasta template response they use to weed out the trash and fakes? Is there a better way to write a post that sort of stops the fakes or is that just part of Reddit?

Thank you to this subreddit for giving my husband the courage to not only bring this up, but to give him the knowledge to explain this in a very loving and positive way. Just the roleplaying has been a huge boost to our marriage in so many ways. We see excited to see what’s next.