My wife and I have been trending towards inviting a man to fuck her over the past few months. We have been vetting two guys, with 1 being eliminated and the second being promising. She has been talking to him a lot and went on a date with him 1:1 that went well enough that we invited him for an overnight with us.

She has been nervous about taking things to the next physical level but has been getting more and more turned on by the idea of being with another man. Through reverse harem and MFM books, sexting with him, and our own dirty talk/role play, she is gaining confidence and having more detailed fantasies, which is resulting in some great sex for us.

The questions and insights we are wondering for now are about the level of physical sex involved. If she is not ready for penetration, is there a level of disappointment for anyone? For the husbands: do you still get the same satisfaction of seeing your wife giving a blow job and causing another man to cum?