Some people have asked for the details. Fair warning. It's a lot of text and not very sexy. But a good resolution.

Background:

My wife and I aren't very sexually experienced, at least outside out marriage. We were both virgins when we got married.

For a while we've been talking about sharing her. She's excited by the idea, but the only guy she's felt comfortable with has been my best friend. They've known each other for a long time and they've been pretty flirty.

They kissed on New Years Eve and she stroked him through his jeans, which we agreed they could do. Afterwards I drove him home and they made out in the backseat. When we got to his place she pulled out his cock and jacked him off. When I warned her not to get cum on the seats, she placed her lips around the tip of his cock and swallowed him as he came.

My wife and I loved it. We fucked like animals when we got home. I loved that I could still taste him on her lips.

The Guilt

I spoke to him the next morning. He felt very guilty about what had happened. He was terrified that he'd ruined our friendship. We'd hoped to take more steps with him, so this was really unexpected. We got together to talk about what had happened.

Why he felt guilty.

It turns out that he felt guilty for a bunch of reasons.

Drunk

He felt guilty because he thought he might have taken advantage of her when she was drunk.

She'd only had a little to drink. She was buzzed, but fully in control. He was very relieved to hear that.

Taking Advantage

He felt guilty because he felt like he took advantage in the car. He thought she only sucked him off to protect the car. She assured him that she wanted to taste him. She'd never tasted anyone other than me.

Hygiene

He felt guilty about his hygiene. He'd been partying all night and he'd gone to take a piss just before we left. He was worried about what his cock tasted like.

She admitted that he tasted a bit musky and she could taste a faint hint of urine on him, but that just drove home that she was doing something "dirty" and "taboo" and it made her hornier. She did say that if anything happened in the future, she wouldn't object to showers beforehand.

Betrayal

He felt guilty about betraying his friend.

I told him that, for me, this wasn't a betrayal but the ultimate expression of trust.

Relationship

He felt guilty about not wanting a relationship. He enjoyed the fooling around and would be interested in more, but he was worried that we wanted to become a throuple, or some sort of formal polyamorous relationship. He wasn't interested in that at all. He wants to date freely.

To be honest, a group relationship had never occurred to us. We assured him that was never our intention.

Objectifying her.

He felt guilty about how aroused he was thinking of her as just a sex object. His friendship or romantic interests were far from his mind while they were making out. He was just getting off to her body.

Which was exactly what she wanted.

Getting Her Off

He felt guilty about the lack of reciprocity. He was the only one who came. She told him that was all she was up for on New Years Eve anyway and that there could be the opportunity to pay her back in the future.

The Future

The conversation went well and seemed to settle his concerns. By the end of it everyone was interested in pursuing it further.

To be honest, by the end we were all starting to get riled up. The last thing we talked about was his guilt that he didn't get her off and that conversation almost led to him eating her out. Despite how horny we all were we decided not to do anything in the moment and give ourselves some time to think. That was a challenging decision to make!

When my wife and I got home the sex was incredible.