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I think 2025 will be the year something happens. We’ve chatted on and off for probably 5 years now (we’re 38M36F marred 10 years) and she’s never been negative - from the first time I mentioned liking the idea of MFM threesomes she was immediately interested and the topic of sharing her has gradually got more and more attention.
Last year we spoke about it weekly and did quite a lot of role play with toys in bed - and I encouraged her to look for guys she’d sleep with and flirt with them. Nothing really happened yet but I’m going to encourage her to take big steps this year with things like sharing photos online, making herself accounts on sites/apps to talk to guys and hopefully having sex with someone (with or without me there).
Any comments or advice on ways to keep edging closer and helping her take bigger steps? She’s keen for all the ideas I suggest but she’s lacking confidence to do more herself and unless I lead things slow down a lot.
That's what I'm talking about. You can navigate this super fun adventure. She'll love the ride, literally.
Does it turn you on to know that she is looking for another man? I'm just curious because I notice a lot of guys seem to want their hotwife to be the ones hunting (for lack of a better word). Personally, my wife has no time for that and prefers I do the recruiting (lol for lack of a better word). I offer selections, she approves or not, we set a date, she goes from mom to porn star in minutes.
But you showing her is very different then her seeing these actual potential guys on her own, by herself, when you are not there. She get's to zoom in, examine his face and body, fantasize, then want to make it a reality.
Do you guys ever email each other? If so, send her photos of guys that want to meet her. That by itself will be a huge turn on for her. She will either bring it up in person or reply to your email. More than likely, if you gave her a good option or two, she will say "he's cute" or "he's hot." That is willingness. At that point, offer a specific date or weekend, and she will probably move forward with you setting something up.
Don't do any solo stuff first. Be there with her and watch or watch and join. Be a team.
I suppose you can text her also, but emails seem to be more absorbant.
You do the leg work. Find men for her. Later on, you can evolve into to her doing things solo or being more involved. Don't pressure her to all of a sudden be on the hunt. You hunt.
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But you showing her is very different then her seeing these actual potential guys on her own, by herself, when you are not there. She get's to zoom in, examine his face and body, fantasize, then want to make it a reality.