Hi everyone :)

My husband (43M) and I (34F) have been in the lifestyle for ~8 years. Of course our play style and dynamics have evolved over time and we feel very comfortable with our “rules” and boundaries.

We typically love MMF threesomes, and usually always play together. However, my husband has expressed that he has very strong compersion, and he really likes to watch me with other people.

Over the past year or so we have experimented in the hot wife lifestyle including me being the third for another couple, and have even been with a LS friend (male) 1 on 1. This was anxiety inducing for me at first, because I thought that he maybe didn’t get anything out of it. Since then I’ve learned a lot and found that he enjoys it, and the reclaiming is the best part!

We are definitely ready now to start looking more into single guys (not just a swap scenario), however our local LS group that we affiliate with doesn’t exactly have the pool we are looking for. I was wondering how you all go about finding single men who might be interested in utilizing your hot wife skills? Dating apps? Reddit?

Thanks!!