On New Years Eve my wife made out with my best friend and ended by giving him a (very brief) blowjob in the backseat.

I was there the entire time, consenting and encouraging them both. It was very hot. I felt like I was on fire the whole time. My wife loved every part of it. It made her feel incredibly sexy. We were both virgins when we got married, so this was a huge step.

We've talked about it and she thinks she's ready to have sex with him. He would be the second man she's slept with.

Unexpected obstacle though. I talked to him this morning and he feels really guilty. He enjoyed it very much, but...it's just not something that's done.

I've assured him that we loved it. My wife is going to talk to him too. Not to push for another encounter. Just to let him know we're fine and still his friends.

But he's the only one she currently feels comfortable about sleeping with. Strange curveball.