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My wife and i have role played with toys and fantasized this lifestyle for a long time. Recently she got hit on for hours out of town at a work conference but never acted on it. Fast forward to this week and we have been openly discussing it and i send her memes and a screenshots of the definition of a hot wife. She responds “ how does that even work”?
Last night i was telling her how beautiful she is and how other me desire her ( she really is gorgeous at 44) . She said she only needs me but see’s how it is exciting and would do it for me (she agreed to add a 3rd in a threesome).
My question is how many men or women started as just doing it because their significant other wanted them to or thought it was HOT? Did it change after the first time? Or did it backfire?
I do way more of that when we are actively in the lifestyle. I am too busy to make appearance top of my priority list on a daily basis.
I did it for my husband. The juice has not been worth the squeeze. But I like turning him on.
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I have naturally stopped every fall and winter and started again in spring and summer. I am not sure if the next year will bring the same. As the hot wife, all of the work falls on me. I am the one doing the work of maintaining physical attraction (tanning, waxing, wearing sexy clothes, doing hair and makeup) and talking to men. And none of them are as good as him in bed. We have had one really fun threesome partner and I had one good solo hookup. Biggest issues are flakes and guys who come before they get in me or go soft.