My wife and I have always agreed that if either of us wanted to exit this lifestyle, we would both agree, without argument. We've been talking about sharing her for over six years, and were getting close to making it a reality. Dirty talking and role play have been part of our sex life since we've been talking about this, and have made sex so much more exciting. Well, now she's pulled the pin, as is her right, and the fantasy is over. To say I'm disappointed would be an understatement, but we have an agreement and I'm sticking to that, not that I have much choice. I guess this is the wrong sub for this question, but just in case anyone's found themselves in my situation, how did you get your head around going back to a more vanilla sex life? Don't get me wrong, my wife enthusiastically embraces anything that a heterosexual man and woman can do in the bedroom, but it seems hard to believe, after all this time, that that will be enough.