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Perhaps there are some couples who have experienced similar incidents and how did you overcome it.
We played with a male third twice and the second time round it was a great experience, my SO came multiple times during play. He’s thicker and longer than me, which I do not have a problem with. He’s good overall and respectful. No issues with him.
Now the issue at hand is that it’s been a month since we last played with him, and she needs the mind fuck (talking about him during sex) for her to cum faster. It was never an issue before him. We didn’t need any kind of mind fuck etc. I’m kind of worried about her needing to think of/imagine him to cum faster. She has also acknowledged that it’s becoming an issue.
Our options for rectifying the problem were :
1) desist from playing with him for a longer period of time and start playing with others more. We like him and kinda do not want to get rid of him for good as it’s hard to find a good respectful third.
2) for her to recall what she didn’t like about him and focus on that whenever she feels the urge to get mind fucked with him in mind.
Maybe you great couples out there could give us more options on what you have done to overcome this. We love the lifestyle and do not want to give it up.
Thank you in advance for all the advice.
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