My (33) gf (30) is traveling in the UK for 3 months. She leaves in just a couple weeks. We have dirty talked during sex a lot about hotwife but had our first serious and honest convo outside of the bedroom this weekend. She asked if I was serious about it as she will be away for 3 months and will likely be presented the opportunity to hookup with men. I told her I was serious but the thing that scares me is I won't be there in the situation that it ends up not being a positive experience for me or for her and we won't be able to have an in person conversation after the act. I will be visiting her about a month into her stay and I am thinking we wait until I visit but I don't want to put constraints on her fun either. Just looking for some advice and if you thinks it's a bad idea for the first time to be a situation where you are across the ocean from your partner.