My wife and I have fantasized for a long time about her being a hotwife. There was a phase where this became more real: she had an intimate online relationship with a bull (although they never met physically), and once, she even went for a coffee with someone she met on Tinder. However, it didn’t go any further than that.

Currently, we are in a completely dormant phase when it comes to these fantasies. However, a few months ago, something happened that left me a bit puzzled. She started asking me to use a condom during our intimate moments, even though she’s on the pill. When I asked her why, she said she didn’t want me to finish inside her because “she didn’t feel like it.”

I have to admit, I didn’t quite understand, as she usually likes when I finish inside. This might sound like a silly question, but I’d like to hear other women’s perspectives on what might have motivated her request.

Thank you in advance for your responses and insights.