First time posting and just trying to get any advice, I've got inklings that I might be interested in the lifestyle. We've(MF Mid-20s) talked about it and it's been a common topic ever since I brought it up. Initially she has said that it's a firm no, because she doesn't have that type of connection with someone. She then mentioned that maybe she'd be able to dance with/on a guy at a bar/club sometime but that might even need some liquid courage for assistance.

It goes without saying that she's hesitant to any idea whatsoever and I have no desire to push her into it, even to try it because if she does it I want it to be for her own curiosity and not my own. The one point I did make to her was that I feel like it could help boost her self esteem about herself since she seems to think no one would find her attractive after 2 kids in her early mid 20s. She also insists that she doesn't need to sleep with anyone else and that I do the job just fine. While I appreciate the sentiment, I can't help but at least find it a turn on so she's asked to try other things in an attempt to "itch" the scratch. Overall just looking for any advice or takes.