Has anyone ever heard of the concept of "spiritual transference", which is the idea that each person you have sex with transfers something spiritual from inside themselves and into you, which then effects you mentally for some length of time?

I understand that people in this lifestyle may not necessarily be religious, but I wonder if any who are open to spirituality in some form can elaborate on this? Have you experienced anything like this? Especially those wives who started out having only a 1 person body count, but now many.

• Did you notice a change in your personality or headspace in your daily life after your first encounter with a different man?

• Do you feel that you take on some kind of spiritual trait or "energy" that reflects back or reminds you of the individual you had sex with?

• How will this change a man's wife if she's never been with another?