Hi everyone. It's been a month since my wife became a hotwife after nearly a year of hesitance about it. It was a terrific, heart-pounding experience for both of us. After a couple weeks of going up and down with the feelings about it, she told me about a week ago that she would like to try it again "if you're really okay with it, are you really okay with it?" Notwithstanding I tell her how hot it was for me almost every time I fuck her.

We did our usual thing of finding a guy she had a mutual attraction with, and who was able to verify his identity and seriousness to our satisfaction. We set the date for last Friday at 7:00 PM, at a hotel bar in a city a short distance from us.

He ghosted her and stood her up.

Now not only is being stood up for a play date a big hit to her self-esteem, it's also very frustrating because of the logistics. We take pretty extreme measures to ensure anonymity which include arranging babysitting for the whole night and driving over an hour to the city, so we can be confident we won't encounter anyone who knows us. We pay for the hotel room. Etc.

She was all dolled up, sexy as hell, and horny and frustrated by 7:20 or so when it became apparent he wasn't going to show. I said "why don't you just sit by yourself at the bar and see who approaches you, let it go wherever it goes? I'll be nearby watching so you'll be safe but won't get involved unless you call me over." She said "no way" but within ten minutes changed her mind and decided to try it. She would beckon me over if she began to feel really uncomfortable, or if by chance a guy ended up inviting her to his room and she was minded to accept the invitation.

Over the next 45 minutes two guys approached her, one who must have been about 60, the other about our age, but she wasn't into either of them and the conversation petered out after a few minutes. By 8:30 she was occasionally bantering with the bartender but feeling ready to pack it in, when a sharply dressed guy--tall, 40ish, a bit overweight but carried it well, really physically a three inches taller version of me--sat down beside her, smiled, and said hi.

To spoil the anticlimactic end of the story for you, it didn't end with us going to his room or him to ours. They talked for a good half hour. I wasn't close enough to hear most of the conversation, but I could see from their body language that it was flirtatious on both sides. But he never did make a real move, and she was far too nervous and uncertain to say anything overtly suggestive. Eventually he said "good night" and they shared a long look, but neither of them said anything and the magical moment passed.

As soon as he left the bar she came to me and said "let's go". We returned to our room and fucked like crazed rabbits for the next hour straight. She was almost soaked before I ever touched her pussy, I've almost never seen her that horny. Later in the evening we talked about what had happened. She said she wanted so badly to invite him to our room but she couldn't form the words. She didn't even know how to explain to a guy "I'm married but my husband is here, want to fuck me while he watches?" We didn't plan to do this and had never talked about how to go about it.

But it was still a memorable evening, if not the evening we set out hoping for. That she didn't hesitate to admit to me that she absolutely would have had sex with him had he offered, she's come a long way in the past couple months of embracing her sexuality.

A week later she's back to feeling pretty frustrated about being stood up. I try to reassure her that that's the normal experience of everyone who tries to set up semi-anonymous hookups online, most of the guys are flakes 'n' fakes. She also says she isn't comfortable with the danger level of just picking someone up--she really wants to see a recent negative STD test first. She's got a good point there, so I don't know that we'll try this avenue again. But it was exciting and fun for both of us.

At this point we're probably done trying to arrange a meet until January, as we'll be traveling for the holidays and pretty busy. But she clearly is getting into the idea of being a hotwife and that is very exciting. And our sex life has never been better.