Just started playing solo - before I had only done it at a local club with my husband nearby. I had 4 encounters, 2 were "meh", 1 was quite fun and 1 was mind blowing. He was 10 years younger than me, absolutely gorgeous face and body, perfection in my book. He was the kind of guy I used to fantasize with in my teens. I am on the curvy side and a bit self conscious, he was so turned out and we had absolutely fabulous sex. We played for about an hour and a half, as it was a Monday night and we both had to drive home to get ready for the next day.

The next day, I felt like a teenager. My mind kept wandering back to the night before, I kept getting butterflies in my stomach. My husband is the only person who knows and he is not necessarily interested in hearing the details, he only wants to know that I had fun.

I am an extrovert and really wanted to talk to someone about it... what do you all do? Just keep it to yourselves? Have a few trusted friends you confide with? Journal about it?