We haven't been really active in the lifestyle. A couple encounters with other couples and it's been three years since we've had our last encounter, where she met a guy and gave him a blow job in his truck. Before that it had only been a couple other guys spaced out over five years. Recently we've been talking about getting more active, nothing big just banter here and there. Last year I told her I wanted to watch her for my birthday. She was too self conscious and it never happened. Fast forward to a couple months ago I text her a fantasy about her surprising me by meeting someone and sending pics of the date as it went along, she has played solo once, five years ago. Lately for me hotwife fantasies have become almost an obsessive thought, it might be my age lol. So while at dinner last week she starts talking about sex with an ex (she knows this get me going). We had fun talking about it and called it a night. The next day I kept thinking about our talk, getting more and more wound up, I try not to bug her at work because she is usually busy, but I couldn't help myself so I texted her...

Me: I'm horny from you talking dirty at dinner last night, I was horny anyway but that just turns it up a notch!

Her: You're just horny ;)

Me: I am horny but I enjoy hearing your past experiences. I have a couple interesting questions...

Her: Hmmmm, what are your questions?

*Before this I was all gungho to lay it out there but then I felt like I got cold feet. I powered through it and asked.

Me: Of the people you've actually had sex with, what are the top 3 you'd do again?

*She had some fun when she was younger :)

She answered, one guy from her distant past that she had told me about, and the first guy she met when we started.

It was a great time for her, she was super attracted to him which made it hotter.

Me: Ok second question. Of the guys you HAVEN'T had sex with, what are the top ones you'd like to do?

Her: HMMM...... I haven't met a guy that I want to have sex with that I hadn't/haven't had sex with already :D What about you?

Me: Not M or C?

*M is a guy she met many years ago after a previous break up and she just wanted to fuck him. It didn't end up happening.

C is a friend from high school many years ago also.

Her: I didn't think about M or C lol... I'm curious about sex with both actually. Funny... not too long ago I guess M was by my work and he texted me if I was working, I was working from home that day.

Me: Mmmm thats hot. So did he want to hook up or something? I'm hard LOL.

Her: He wanted to see me, so I guess he wanted to hook up... not like it would happen right there and then lol. I haven't heard from him in a while, I was surprised he texted me. I did tell him the next time your by my work text me and I told him the days I work from home..... I should ask him if he wanted to hook up/fool around.

Me: NICE! Yes ask him! I'm curious...Let me know what he says.

Her: Wow, he answered fast!

Me: You're smoking hot! I'm not surprised.

*she is smoking hot. We've been in the gym the last year and she has been getting complements all over the place.

Her: I'm sure he'd be up for having sex with me after work sometime ;P

Me: I can't concentrate now! LOL So when are you going to meet him?

That was the last message for the day....

UPDATE 12/5/: She was busy at work and couldn't respond any longer. She showed me the conversation when she got home.

Her: Hey M, so were you looking for some fun when you text me?

M: It crossed my mind. Can I have my way with you the week of the 16th sometime.

Her: Maybe! ;)

UPDATE 12/7: I noticed she put the trimmer on the charger. She doesn't normally use the trimmer... She's also been more frisky. I'ts starting to feel more real! I don't want to get my hopes up, we tried to meet up with him couple times in the beginning but he backed out.

UPDATE 12/8: Asked if he had text her anymore and she said he hadn't.