Something I’ve observed in my wife since sharing her as stag/vixen is her confidence, taking control of her sex life and her sense of independence . On her first solo hotel date I offered to drop her off and though she was nervous she insisted on driving herself, it was with a trusted guy she’s been with before so it was cool. It was a confidence I’d never seen before she became a Hotwife earlier this year. The second thing is her sort of territorial attitude she has towards her guys. I trust her completely and she shows me all the texts between her and her two fwb’s so there are no secrets. I made the mistake of texting one of them with a hint of something she likes (she’s sort of shy and doesn’t guide her lover much) and she made it known she doesn’t like me doing that. I guess I might have trespassed on her/their privacy in some way though I have been in the room when she’s played and it was awesome! We’ve been together since our teens and was very active in the swinging lifestyle for years so there isn’t much we haven’t seen or done together or separate, we’re best friends and very much in love. We’re enjoying this adventure!