My wife and I have been together almost 11 years. She's very modest in public, but has a very high sex drive. Our sex life has been good, but largely vanilla. A little over a year ago I finally admitted my fantasy to her of wanting to try a mfm and just sharing her in general. Whether I join or not is not necessarily important to me. To my surprise she wasn't immediately turned off or slammed the door closed on the idea. We talked through it quite a bit. She still says it won't happen. Her reason being that she still thinks watching me be with another guy will hurt me or create jealously issues.

Since the initial conversation I've not brought it up unless she has, I don't want to pressure her in any way. She brings it up and jokes about it suprisingly regularly. The topic has become a pretty normal foreplay subject. I've gotten her to talk about her past sexual experiences in vivid detail which is incredibly hot. She's talked about which of our friends she'd fuck if she had a chance. We roleplay with toys quite a bit. I've gotten her to flash a couple buddies now. She'll joke about finding other dick if we haven't had sex in a bit. She really went into it while I was on a trip for a couple weeks recently. While we were having sex after I got back she was talking about me fucking the cum out of her that her booty calls left in her while I was away. I got a batch of nudes from her in the middle of one of the nights because she was so turned on from a dream of fucking a random guy. We have both nude beaches and sex clubs within a short drive. She's agreed to try out the nude beach this summer, but is still a "no" on the sex club. She seems to shy away from mfm and go more towards solo hotwifing which I'm fine with.

She still insists she won't actually do it, but just playing into the fantasy has been unbelievably hot and improved our overall sexual communication and frequency of sex. Even if it never happens I'm so glad I finally brought up the subject to her.