Hi friends.

My(38) Wife(36) and I were having a night by ourselves at home last Friday. After lots of heavy making out she had the idea that we should go to a club. I'm not feeling it but I sensed that she really wanted to go. She's mentioned the fantasy of making out with strangers on the dance floor a few times now. She even put on her new outfit with no underwear to tempt me. I dared her to go solo and let at least one guy know she's looking for someone to fuck. Surprisingly she was enthusiastic about it and I realized this was going down.

The whole night I was by my phone sexting her and getting updates. She was out for only around 90 mins but I got the text that she did it! She made out with a stranger. She felt so empowered to be out by herself for herself. She's super good looking so I'm not surprised she's able to get who she wants. She told me how she dirty danced with someone for 20 mins. He had his hands inside her skirt and had lifted it up for everyone to see her bare ass. She was making out with him while she rubbed him on the outside. He introduced himself and said his name but rest of it were all action with no further words exchanged. She texted me how cute he was and I asked her if she's ready to fuck him. She said no she's already called an uber. That was enough excitement. It wasn't without temptations. Deep down she's ready to go all the way she told me afterwards. I think that's why she's pulled a sudden disappearing act.

Since Friday she's been itching to go out again. She doesn't mind me coming along but I can tell she enjoyed the solo experience.

I find everything hot but I'm almost more proud that she's able to come out of her shell and go after what she wants. She tends to put everyone ahead of herself and she had no experience with other men besides me. I know this is a big deal to her and I feel like we've open the Pandora box.

She wanted to go again on sat but we decided to slow down. She's horny all weekend and we're more in love than ever. This feels like a cheat code to relationships to be honest.

With all that said, is this still squarely within the hotwife zone? I know labels only go so far. I feel like she's enjoying the hunt and thrill of being wanted. I have no problems with that per se but I'm curious if there is something else here we are exploring that we aren't aware of?

She's already gotten a few new tops and she's most likely going to go out solo next weekend again since we have don't have sitters for the kids this week. I am excited that she's opening up and trying something she's wanted to for a long time but weren't able to. I also wonder if exploring our kink in a "normal club" is the best idea? I haven't wanted to have sex with other women but this attention and excitement she's getting makes me a bit jealous I think. I have promised I am not interested in having sex with someone else but this seems different? We both didn't have a big party phase meeting people like this so I'm not sure if this is just fomo?

Has anyone have similar experiences or advice they can share? We appreciate all response!