As I have mentioned in several posts, this lifestyle is a well-kept secret of ours and we definitely wouldn't want to change that. And we recently realized that we are currently in no danger of our social circle finding out anything. 😄

It's Christmas market season in Germany and my wife was with a group of friends having mulled wine and talking about all sorts of things when the topics became a little NSFW as the alcohol level rose. The girls generally talk about the topic of swinging and open relationships because a work colleague of one present seems to live it out very openly and doesn't make a secret about it. Long story short: As a result, none of the girlfriends in line thought that my wife would be able to live this lifestyle. In other words, she is “too sweet”, “too shy”, “too introverted”, “a little prude” and overall absolutely “not a kinky person”. She agreed to all of this and then told me about it at home with a grin on her face. In a way, it's incredibly hot that our friends and family think like this of my wife, while I also know the kinky/hotwife side of her that no one would even believe exists.