When I was in my early 20s, I became a bull for a couple and that let to more couples. I mainly kept an ongoing relationship with them. I'm not really a one and done person. Now I am married and my wife knows about my past experiences and how it still is a turn on to be a "bull" or even have MFM threesomes. She is no prude, but hasn't had a threesome yet either. She isn't actually into having a mfm threesome, but instead wants to be with women. After trying apps and being very disappointed by the fakes, flakes and one unfortunate experience with a female coworker not knowing limits, she has given up on trying to set it up herself and wants a more natural meeting. It comes up from time to time and she mainly wants to do it in vacations as we no longer live in a city. (I have a post looking now) I've been trying to find a hotwife couple that plays separately that can help me set it up. Is it wrong to load the deck and make this happen since it is her fantasy? I've been searching in NYC, where I'm originally from and we visit regularly. We've joked about having feet finders/OF and she's definitely kinky. Is loading the deck wrong? Is anyone interested?