Hi everyone,

I’ve recently come across some fascinating scientific research that shows how hormonal birth control can significantly influence women’s sex drive and partner preferences. Studies indicate that women who stop using hormonal birth control often experience an increase in their libido and a shift in their attraction toward more traditionally “masculine” men—those with traits associated with higher testosterone levels. This phenomenon is rooted in how hormonal birth control alters hormone levels, which can affect both desire and partner selection.

What’s caught my attention is how this might connect to broader lifestyle trends. Specifically, I’ve noticed that a growing number of women in their 30s and 40s—an age range where many are likely stopping hormonal birth control—are becoming interested in the hotwife lifestyle. Within this dynamic, it seems common for women to engage in purely physical relationships with men who often fit the "bull" archetype of being more “manly” or physically dominant.

This observation leads me to wonder: Could there be a connection between women stopping hormonal birth control and developing an interest in this lifestyle? Perhaps the hormonal and psychological shifts tied to going off birth control create a greater drive for the type of physical relationships often explored within this community.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this. If you or your partner are active in this lifestyle, did interest in it develop after she stopped using hormonal birth control? Did you notice any changes in her sex drive, preferences, or desires during this time?

For those interested in the research side, here are a couple of studies that discuss the hormonal and behavioral shifts:

• Study: Hormonal Contraceptives and Partner Preferences
• Study: Libido Changes After Stopping Hormonal Birth Control