Hello my name is Don and I'm trying to understand this lifestyle. My wife and I have tried the swinger house and partner swap but not in the same room. I'm trying to see if this would work for us. My best friend recently told me that he has been trying to get his wife to hotwife for a couple of years but she has been resistant. He told me he liked the idea of absolute trust and communication but the idea of watching his wife have sex with nothing in return is odd to me. Recently she opened the door to the idea and they ran into some issues but that's their business.

Questions I asked him and wanted to ask here to better understand hotwifing are.

1. What made you even desire to try this with your wiife?

2. Why wouldn't you want the chance to have sex with ith another woman? Seems fair if your wife can.

3. Why would you want to watch? Is there any bisexual feelings there? What's the intrigue? Wife and I don't have sex in the same room, saw it once and it killed illed me.

4. ls your wife okay with you watching or is she against it?

5. Does the other guy mind that you're watching? ls it odd for him or does he get off on it?

6. How do you ask a guy to fuck your wife and ask to watch or record? Are they okay with either?

7. How does this bring you closer?

8. Wife gets more pleasure than do when We swing but since I partake I can deal with it. How do you feel knowing someone else had your wife and she no longer is just yours?

9. Do you feel or know you can't please your wife and that's why you want to see someone else do it or is it purely because you want to see your wife pleased from a different prospective?

Sorry had a lot of questions, I just don't understand how this is great for the husband.