My gf f25 and I m24 have been dating for 6 months, we see each other every other weekend because she lives in another city (I take a 4 hour bus 2 times a month) and I brought out the topic a few weeks ago, and now she has some dates set with a couple of guys.

I’ve had an addiction to masturbating and often thinking about this topic to get off for at least a few years

She’s very excited, and I am too, but when post but clarity hits me I feel 50/50 about this and feel like our relationship isn’t strong enough YET (i love her and 100% trust her but her communication isn’t perfect yet, which is a big deal for me) and i feel like she also prioritizes me enjoying which I love, but i still have concerns like:

-With her liking the other guys more -Our relationship identity becoming only hotwifing -STD’s or general safety with her living alone in another city -Me not liking normal sex anymore

We’re planning to move to the same city together by the end of next year… so my questions are:

Would it be wiser to wait until we are on the same city and talk about it then?

Is this too soon to be doing something like this?

Should I be worried of her leaving me? I know she would 100% stop rn if I’m not all in

Thank you in advance for any advice. I love her and want to prioritize a healthy relationship before any kink that could lead to us being ruined more than a nice experience