Well after about 9 months of talking, fantasizing together, getting cold feet a couple times, sifting through loads of crappy profiles and finally finding one, it happened and I couldn't thank this sub enough. Been reading advice from others in the sub and it's helped a ton.

Little back story, we're 28m/27f been together 10 years married for 5. We've been on the verge of trying this many times in the past year but couldn't pull the trigger. My wife seemed super into it at first but got discouraged with all the fake profiles and creepy people she encountered trying to vet a 3rd. Well this past weekend I did a little vetting and messaged a guy early that morning, checked his vibe and gave our boundaries, he seemed chill so I sent his profile to my wife for them to continue conversing. They got along pretty well so we were on a good track.

We had already planned a overnight to a nearby big city and we had been talking about finding a 3rd for that night. Well after they talked and exchanged a few pics he agreed to meet us at our hotel bar that evening.

Fast forward to that evening and we showed up a few minutes early and had a few drinks to hopefully calm our nerves. Seemed to do the trick for me, but she was still super nervous/excited. Seeing the emotional rollercoaster she was on kinda turned me on even more. When he texted that he had arrived my wife's eyes lit up with excitement and I could see her start to almost shake with anticipation.

He made his way over to us and was exactly like the photos. My wife and him both very quickly admitted to being nervous and shy, so I told them to converse while I grab us some more drinks. When I returned they were both coming out of there shell. We all talked for about an hour before I made the comment my phone was dying (something we had planned before) and she suggested we go to the room to charge it. He agreed and we made our way up to the room.

When we got in the door my wife went to the bathroom to freshen up leaving me and the third to talk. I gave him some last second advice and told him he'd have to take the lead with her since she'd be to nervous. Right when I heard the bathroom door unlock I excused myself to use the restroom as well. She walked out wearing sexy lingerie we picked out earlier in the evening. I smacked her on her butt on the way in and closed the door.

About 15 seconds after the door shut I heard the clear sound of my wife's ass being smacked followed shortly by kissing and moaning. By the time I finished and walked out he was fingering her on the bed and making out. She called me over and we started making out while he went down on her. Once she was warmed up I took a turn from behind while she returned the favor to him. Then came the moment...

She crawled on top of him and I watched my wife become a hotwife, seeing the look on her face when it first happened was amazing. We kept going in various positions for about 40 minutes with me sometimes participating and sometimes recording. He was respectful the whole time and we were both super focused on her. She had a great orgasm followed shortly by him, then he made his exit as I was getting ready to take my turn. I finished shortly after and we laid there relaxed and feeling completely at ease with what we just did.

We layed there talking about it half the night and honestly felt even closer. The only down side is she was a bit sore the day after since he was a bit more gifted than me below the belt.

All in all it was a great experience that I'm sure we'll repeat one day. Thanks for all the info and advice I received from this sub, you guys are an absolute gold mine of knowledge.