We're a South Asian couple living in the UK. We are part of the hotwife lifestyle (LS), with a touch of subtle cuck01d!ng involved. I say "subtle" because I strongly dislike any form of humiliation—whether directed at me, my wife, or anyone else involved.

My wife and I have been married for over 30 years. She was a virgin when we got married, although she had dated before we met. However, she had never been intimate with anyone prior to me. This journey into the hotwife lifestyle has been a long one—over 25 years of discussions, fantasies, role-playing, and watching countless lifestyle-themed movies and adult films together.

Eventually, my wife agreed to take the first step by meeting another man for a full-body massage (I got a masseur from FabSwinger). To my utter surprise, during that session, the masseur made her climax twice using just his fingers—there was no sex involved. Afterwards, she felt a lot of guilt, but a few weeks later, once her emotions settled, she expressed a desire to try another massage.

This was music to my ears! Excited, I immediately reached out to the same masseur and arranged everything. I even booked a hotel for the occasion. One thing I made absolutely clear to him was that there would be no restrictions on how far things could escalate, but my wife would be in control at all times. She would decide the pace and the limits. If she wanted to stop at any point, that would be final.

During the second session, they ended up having sex, and from there, everything changed. That moment marked the beginning of her journey as a hotwife, and the rest, as they say, is history. It's been one year this month, and we're still in honeymoon periods.